Saturday, December 4, 2010
When the man weeps...
Monday, November 29, 2010
I'm a birthday girl
Wondering why ladies mostly obsessed by staying younger ever more!:D
P.S. To Stay Young Keep Growing Old Gracefully. ;)
best regards
Friday, October 15, 2010
The art of criticism
This is my brother, who utterly got resented when my mother calls him whenever he stays out late.
He says her discourteous way of criticizing him after answering her calls makes him as a joke in front of his peers; and the hilarious thing is he told me they all are treated exactly the same by their mothers and getting phone calls is like hell.
Not only that but his next session is waiting for him immediately when he gets back home so that she criticizes his irresponsibility toward himself and his frivolity etc...
The matter is he does not understand why she usually does that and on the opposite side she does not have a clue that she is criticizing not advising him. I’ve tried repeatedly to explain to them both. But I talked, to no avail.
However criticizing is an art that we must be aware of. And it has good and bad impact which depends on the accent during talking. There is a good way that we can criticize our beloveds and people around us that turn the disapproval to constructive criticism and then positive outcomes appear.
Of course, people do not accept any criticism when they take it personally or even when they got criticized in public or around people even close ones.
I refuse criticizing when I found it worthless. I’ve always found it somehow too complicated for me to refuse my parents criticism. It’s hard to change their solid grasps of thoughts and it's so hard to use the word "no" when they speak. Although somehow I believe that criticizing profoundly benefits us and any clue is subject to change with fruitful outcomes.
However what I'm attempting to reach is how to handle criticism! How could you accept criticism by close ones like parents? When you put the limits of criticism so you cease any criticizer? When you start criticizing and when you just cease it? And what kind of criticism benefits you profoundly in life if there is any superb impact?
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Back to hell
The moment I read what’s written on the small card " back to hell " I opened my eyes widely then we all burst giggling, what a naughty girl!
I know how it feels when the bells keep ringing *back to school *. At our schools very few number of the competent teachers who like their job and do their job faithfully. Unfortunately the first and last aim of most of them is taking SALARY every month.
Recently I had never met a child told me that s/he loves the school neither adolescent. Somehow that peeved me but that is the truth. To wit, that mess is absolutely against Islam!
However, I had read once about the power of belief and how it shapes our actions and makes lasting changes in our lives marvelously. The writer talked about one great leader who impressed me. She is a TEACHER; she made a real difference in children’s lives, because she has a passionate deep-rooted conviction way that impacts her students for good.
The writer visited her school so that he interviewed one of her students. He interviewed a boy around four years old. The boy believes in such great clues that really stunned me. During the interview the boy said the most important thing he learned from his teacher is “The society may predict, but only he will determine his destiny”!
He owned beliefs that his teacher permeated in their souls beautifully. And I guarantee him and all his class mates’ bright future.
I wonder if there are teachers in our nations who make great impacts in students’ lives instead of compelling them to despise schools and let them pass through psychological wars ended with antipathy towards school and backward societies.
During my life time in school I have seen so many bad examples of teachers who really need two things “reeducation plus psychiatrist” to amend their personal problems.
Don’t know what on earth is wrong with teachers! If they don’t like their job why don’t they just resign to shift the burden from students’ shoulders instead of practicing violence and spreading their mental diseases like irremediable cancerous cells!
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
My inner whispers!
From within me to dear Me!
Dear Rationality, keep cleansing your heart by worshiping and staying close to Allah. Fill your heart with warmth and love. I know you keep saying life is enigmatic and you can’t get people. Just accept people as they are. Sometimes we people can’t get changed. Accept people’s apologies, give people chances to talk, listen to them, and help them whenever they need you. Stay away from recent era diseases like antipathy, envy and grudge; that would blind you totally!
Dear Rationality it’s not abnormal to get frustrated for a while. Who hasn’t anyhow? However the key is not to get so deep in grief, it will cease you pursuing your dreams. Just let your destiny takes you wherever it goes as long as you do your best; and you are under Allah almighty mercy so, don’t annoy yourself thinking anymore!
*Remember dear that grumbling and complaining yields you Nothing so be stronger and more patient to overcome life’s obstacles.
Dear Rationality, life is precious gift and life’s odyssey is limited; it must have some obstacles which might stumble you. That is absolutely normal but the succeed people are the ones who learn how to take the advantage of any situation considering it as a new lesson. So enjoy every moment while you still breathing. Keep dreaming, keep laughing and smiling. Be yourself the optimistic girl who I always know. As you know the sweet days can never come back again, just focus on present and enjoy yourself.
And yes, don’t ever think that confronting me is an act of madness, to wit, I know you somehow believe that there is no great genius without some touch of madness. So please keep the solid grasp of superb values and beliefs you have.
With deepest love, truly Your inner whispers :)
P.S I wore the words above since almost one year ago, and a friend of mine ecouraged me to post them after I got hesitated to free them in here. Thanks a lot my dear friend :)
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Satisfaction Brings Happiness!
Our existence in life leads us to take the charge of our aims, beliefs and feelings in order to amend the process of our lives. We try doing our best to alter the negative outcomes to simply reach happiness in other word “satisfaction”.
We all have our dreams hence; we believe in ourselves that we have special abilities or gifts which can touch others in unique way so we can make the world better place.
After a deep thinking about plenty of things that I’m highly aiming at, I asked myself the following questions:
Am I satisfied? When I still aiming at several things; does it mean that I’m not satisfied so I considered being unhappy person?
Does happiness related to satisfaction? And is it imperative that we ask: Does happiness come to the ones who own satisfaction? Or it’s just satisfaction with what we all own so we can be happy?
That time I got a certain degree of bewilderment; how come I consider myself happy but still not satisfied? :)
To many, money is a basic component of owing the happiness and satisfaction. People hit the summit of happiness when they just own precious and luxury stuffs!
In fact, we human beings have the instinct of desiring more and more so the materialistic things soon become ordinary after we get them. Therefore, we keep looking for new things to feel what we expect as satisfaction… We are greedy don’t we!
Eventually I got two simple queries :)
- What is happiness and satisfaction on your point of view?
- Suppose the time is reserved, so you have the chance to change your lifestyle. Would you re-plan the events of your life in order to achieve the satisfaction? Or you will just stick to the same kind of life?
Sunday, August 1, 2010
Phones are source of germs!
Mobiles are pretty important. With time they become one of the most necessary things people extremely use daily. A new study in UK shows that mobiles carries 18 times more harmful germs than flush handle and lavatory seats in WCs! The tests show one of the mobiles has such high level of bacteria which could make a serious stomach upset to its owner!
It said the level of the harmful bacteria inhabited in phones were off scale. That phones needs STERELIZING.
The study showed that there were more than 18 different types of bacteria which are:
- Enterobacteria: a group of bacteria which live in lower intestine level.
- Bugs such as Salmonella.
- Faecal conliforms: a group of bacteria associated with human waste.
- Food poisoning bugs like E.coli and staphylococcus aureus but those found at a safe levels.
*Besides the study shows that some computer keyboards have more harmful bacteria that lavatory seats! YUCK
Well I’m sort of obsessed by sterilizing my hands from time to time and whenever I had training in the hospital I keep the sterilizer close to me so I can keep cleaning at the whole time I spend there . Besides I don’t think that we Muslims carries that huge number of germs and bacteria as long as we wash our hands, ears and faces five times per day in order to pray and sometimes more than five. To me it’s not that accurate study while it depends on the person cleanness but it's weird cuz it is more Contaminated than lavatory seats!
Friday, July 23, 2010
Words ultimate power!
Words… have the power to not only make emotional frenzy but they generate great actions. By using words great people have been made. Words are just a magical ultimate power that we can’t see but we can feel…
Despite of knowing how we get influenced by words but sometimes we use them negatively!
I witnessed a fight between two people who I know. The fight started with arguing but it ended in full-fledged rage … each one of them was saying so harsh words that were really sharp. I was listening silently and just looking at them without uttering even one word…
However, when people got irritated they just look like they got possessed by demons! They look like utter devil in humans shape with really bad deeds! But why!
In Islam our prophet Mohammed PBUH said we ought to change our posture whenever we get mad in order to calm down. And if that does not work we have to make *wodho’* (It is Islamic way to wash our organs before praying to make our bodies pure).
Why *wodho’*? Because Satan was created by fire and nothing can cease fire except the water!
I’m wondering why we give Satan the chance to possess us over and over again. Does that make us comfortable? Or we are just so weak so we can’t control ourselves? Where is the self-control? I’m not saying that I don’t get mad ever but after I do, I found myself full of regret and feel like I’m a tiny creature coz I failed in controlling myself even if I’m not mistaken.
Once I had read an article about how could we manage our temper, there are so many ways to but there is one way I found kinda ridiculous which tells one of the best ways to cease getting mad is convincing the person you’re talking to. Don’t you think that method is impossible sometimes? I’ve met so many stubborn and ignorant people who just don’t want to understand or even listen during any conversation whenever they are disagree!
Regardless of what had been written above my question is: do you believe in the power of words? And if you do what would be your respond if someone close attack you by sharp words?
Kind regards..
Monday, May 31, 2010
Weird attitude!
It shows how superficial and rude he is! Dunno how he spent that long time as a president!
Here we go…
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Life's Melody
“”Life is like a piano; White keys are happy moments & Black keys are sad moments. But remember both are played together to give sweet ~melodies~””
So sweet and positive words…Those words show the harmony between sorrow and happiness moments Allah the almighty created!
And here is one of my favorite melodies:
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Another social crime
Today I come across after a friend of mine told me a tragic story happened in a hospital. She said she witnessed a married woman got beaten by her husband cruelly, and that left her arm broken and one of her ribs plus the dark red bruises he left over her face and rest of her body! That all happened to her cuz she asked him why you are late! After we finished our conversation I was in a shock for a while! How come a man beat his wife!
Another story I’ve heard before, it’s about a married woman who no longer feels safe in her home. She was beaten by her husband, although they were estranged, and her body was scarred after her injuries which had meant emergency medical attention.
She escaped to her parent’s home and her friends told her she must contact the police – for assistance and to lodge the formal complaint against her husband. Her friends tried to convince her that it’s the only way to make him understand the seriousness of his crime and to force him to control his anger.
But the problem is her family did not want their dirty linen exposed in public. They forced their daughter to keep the matter private, hoping that her husband would see sense. Her father and her brothers pledged that they would visit and talk to him.
This case is common. Women choosing not to speak up against the abuse they have suffered for fear of divorced, losing their children and being of neighborhood gossips!
Recently there are so many people suffering from the domestic violence and it became a contemporary issue which deficiency of passion during childhood is considered the matter of prime importance behind this crime. It somehow affects negatively on people for long extent, especially when the person had been exposed to beaten since his/her childhood.
The problem is those people take their bad memories and concepts about violence with them after marriage, consequently they think they have the right to beat their wives, and others see it’s a normal when a husband beat his wife or vice versa because they coexisted with such situations.
Nowadays people considered the domestic violence a crime against the society. It includes any physical and sexual abuse as well verbal violence and threats. And it has various aspects and affects any one irrespective of age, social background, gender, physical strength, or education. It could happen between spouses and among member of the related family.
The problem is social reasons cannot be overlooked. And there are so many reasons behind the domestic violence against women but I considered the misinterpretation of the religious concept of man’s control over domestic affairs. Some ignorant men believe this to be linked to the controlling of the wife by the husband, while in reality; it means looking after the wife and fulfilling her needs.
In UAE, Dubai foundation for women and children is active in protection victims of domestic violence and they accept people who seek refuge and who got burden from the maltreatment...
I don’t really think that would solve this problem. I mean for how long they would support those victims? Besides the tragic days they had been through would left a negative impact which yields the same previous stories over and over again.
Don’t you think they just push themselves to the edge with tragic consequences? They are humiliating and feeling unsafe at their homes, what are homes for other than feeling safe and happy in? I dunno but dignity is something that we can’t live without, it’s related to make us happy and satisfy human beings. Allah legitimate the divorce cuz sometimes marriage makes people get disenchanted with life, however Allah knows what is the best and sometimes divorce is the best solution at such cases.
Saturday, April 24, 2010
Is it our nature!
While I was roaming in the web I found out the following comic; somehow I liked it cuz I found it funny and realistic at the same time, that’s why I come across to drop it in...
Here we go
We all humans are ungrateful, mostly we do not appreciate the graces and gifts we own, we keep looking for the best and that is normal, but the problem is we often prefer what others have more than what we have! I’m wondering when we will be more Thankful!
Sunday, March 28, 2010
offensive advice!
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Couple to appeal public kissing verdict in Dubai:
An Emirati woman raised a complaint against a 24-year-old British man, who works in Dubai, and a 25-year-old woman, visiting from the UK. Because they broking rules by touching and kissing each other on lips in public. The lady said what they did pissed her off because her children were there and they saw that disrespectful scene in the restaurant around 2 am. After she called the police telling them what happened. The couple claimed they kissed on the cheek under the influence of alcohol. Now they face one month in jail and deportation. The couple will appear before the Appeals Court next week, seeking acquittal or reduction of the primary judgment.
I think they deserved this punishment even if it’s sort of harsh because we all got annoyed when we see such scenes in publics. That makes kids stare at them and send them a message which does not belong to neither our areas nor our religion it’s like saying “it’s okay to do such immortal attitude anywhere as you like as long you think it’s good”. That message could ruin our societies. Our religion and habits did not teach us such crap. Those behaves teach them abhorred deeds. I wish that punishment be like a respectful message which everyone appreciates and a red line that that no one else crosses again. Hope this couple is considered as a moral anyway. It’s nice to be advanced country having so many different inhabited nationalities but without forsaken our principles and religion. Each country has its own habits and beliefs which should be respected by any dweller.
Monday, March 15, 2010
Backwardness
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Life is enigmatic!
Unfortunately sometimes I can’t get along with people who I use to deal with. They make life more complicated and mysterious. They cover themselves under grey color and hide their faces under pretty masks. It’s really hard to me to get them and know what they really want. And what makes me get frustrated is when I try to satisfy them but they don’t appreciate it even by a ward Thank You. Well, I am not constraint to please them all even if they are my friends or my kins while, they keep doing unacceptable deeds intentionally or whatever. I’ve nothing to do with people who lost their minds sentiments.
It makes me feel frustrated when I could not understand people. That’s why I need to stay away from people for a while sometimes, especially those superficial humans, to take a breath and rest my mind. I don’t know if I’m mistaken or that is the right way of dealing with people if I got confused I just ignore them without censures and reproach coz they will not appreciated it.
Thursday, March 4, 2010
The Secret
Honestly what makes me like this book is while I’m reading every part of it; it reminded me by our Holy Quran and our Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) Sunnah quotes. It exercises the reader to keep praising Allah and how to be graceful servant. I liked it when the book says there is nothing impossible whereas the human has a real faith. It says that we have to thank GOD every time while we are still breathing. Hence there is nothing new and nothing strange in this book. It is really worthy so don’t hesitate to read and enjoy it.
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Dubai is up against the wall!
Dubai police declare… Those people who had been involved in the assassination had been watched by the cameras which recorded their movements at the hotel close to the Victim’s room. And that operation did not offend Dubai only but also the suspects countries” as the Officer’s said in flew off handle tone.
My question is what is their target of killing him in Dubai? And why does Dubai targeted by them? If they really targeted Dubai... Why did they insult Dubai by underestimating the capabilities that such city has? Is that all to make Dubai goes through another new crisis by ruining its safety reputation? Does their jealousy blind their eyes that much, so that made them fool themselves globally? Did not they think about the consequences that they are being through now at least!!!
Wish Dubai police efforts turn over a new leaf of those bastards and get the killers, to put that in their consideration and give a lesson for other terrorists to not even think to mess with our country and any other peaceful countries. May Allah bless and protect you Dubai.
Monday, March 1, 2010
Old little boy!
Couple of days ago I went to the clinic to make my RCT session. On our way we passed through a petrol station and there I saw a little boy (if can I say that) he is about 12 years old. He was there selling car’s medals which carry some of Holy Quran quotes.
In fact when I saw him it was like I saw a mature man in a little boy appearance that the brutality and cruelty of his life eliminated the countenance of innocence outta his face. I kept looking at him attentively while he was passing between cars offering his simple commodity for cars riders without boredom or tedium.
While he passed through us I slipped the car’s window down to have a chance to talk to him. When he was there I took a quick peep at him again he looks serious and rational boy. I asked him about the goods he has. Then I purchased more than one medal regardless of my unneeded to them.
My curiosity pushed me to ask him what does constrain him to work. Although he is still kid and he has the right to enjoy his time playing, or whatever like any other kid. He said his parents are jobless plus his father is diabetic and has cardiac disease so, he is not even able to get work cuz of his health circumstances. That’s why nobody can outlay their family except him and his brother. May Allah bless and protect you little guy... What a tough life you are facing and what a devoted boy you are!
My point of narrating the scene is showing my admiration toward this little old boy. Besides blaming myself when I face a little obstacle in contrary side with (what those people are going through) making it complicated by contradictory negative feelings which unfortunately reflect the vulnerable although I having marvelous life in compare. Not only me but also many other people, who keep grumbling about their life and claiming that life is complicated, forgotten the innumerable gifts they have…
Here what I can only say is “Thank you GOD" Thank you for your infinite generosity and your kindness. Thank you for every unappreciated gifts you conferred and we denied. Thank you for the precious and thrive life you awarded...
Sunday, February 28, 2010
How great is our GOD
This picture should be considered as the Picture of the Year, or maybe the Picture of the Decade as Jason said in a great things site. We probably will never see it. The picture is that of a 21-week-old unborn baby named Samuel Alexander, who is being operated on by a surgeon named Joseph Bruner.
The baby was diagnosed with spina bifida and would not survive if he got taken outta his mother's uterus. The baby's mother is an obstetrics nurse. She knew of Dr. Bruner's remarkable surgical procedure and he performs these special operations while the baby is still in the womb.
During the procedure, the doctor removes the uterus via C-section and makes a small incision to operate on the baby. During the surgery on baby, the little guy reached his tiny, but fully developed, hand through the incision and firmly grasped the surgeon's finger.
The photographer captured this moment while the surgeon got amazed for moments when that tiny hand of hope firmly grasped his finger... It was like the little guy gave him a handshake to thank him for the gift of life. Hence the editors titled the stupendous picture, "Hand of Hope."
It’s really staggering picture and we would not ever see an amazing picture like that for decade. It shows us how our GOD is great and how life is precious gift.
My first post
Finally I’ve emitted my blog. To me start blogging is like facing a dilemma. Thinking of this start took a long time after a friend of mine encouraged me to open my own liberty page.