offensive advice!

Couple of days ago I went to the mall with my family; it was around 5:00 PM. When it was almaghrib prayer time, we all approached to the prayer room to not miss the prayer. When I was there beside the room doorstep there was a lady who does not look Arabian standing there with her adorable kids who got my attention for a while. We both entered the room at the same time, the place there was congested and that somehow made me got relief. Anyway she left her children at the back of the room then she started praying beside me. When she got started praying her younger kid started weeping intensively by way which muddled up the whole place. After we all over and done with praying, one aggressive lady started to shout in a terrible and fury way saying “where on earth is the mother of this kid?” His mother hurried on and caught her kid to shush him. While she was trying to calm him down, that irritated lady came closer to her and said in barbarian tone “ hay you lady don’t ever bring your noisy children in here again we could not even focus, stay at your home and pray there but not in here”. The mother of the kid did not reply she just kept silent with a big shock. That poor lady did not even understand what she said, she is not Arabian but she read the anger tone in her face and voice it was extremely vivid.

At least she has to respect the holy place she is in I think! Is that a way to dispense a foreigner advice? Does it because that lady does not belong to the area so she has the right to treat her cruelly? Does it because she is suffering from the lack of self-esteem so that push her to tyrannize the poor lady who she feels somehow she has the power on her? Unfortunately mostly people who dispense advices are ignorant even the erudite people sometimes can’t handle their anger tone when they advice someone close!

That is not away to advice someone it’s absolutely rejected in Islam. When it comes to giving advice I consider what she did just offensive and stupid speech. Actually I got resented by what I saw. People do not understand what the real Islam is; they just keep worshiping without any value principle forgetting that ((Our Islam is not only dogma and worship but it’s also ethics and dealing well with people)). We are all familiar with that story of the man who got heaven cuz he fed a dog. Our religion resembles mercy for every single creature. But still people do not understand our Islam. I’m still in bewilderment looking for a solution makes people more informative to dispense and accept advices!

Couple to appeal public kissing verdict in Dubai:

A couple who claimed they kissed on the cheek in a restaurant while under the influence of alcohol faces one month in jail and deportation.

An Emirati woman raised a complaint against a 24-year-old British man, who works in Dubai, and a 25-year-old woman, visiting from the UK. Because they broking rules by touching and kissing each other on lips in public. The lady said what they did pissed her off because her children were there and they saw that disrespectful scene in the restaurant around 2 am. After she called the police telling them what happened. The couple claimed they kissed on the cheek under the influence of alcohol. Now they face one month in jail and deportation. The couple will appear before the Appeals Court next week, seeking acquittal or reduction of the primary judgment.

I think they deserved this punishment even if it’s sort of harsh because we all got annoyed when we see such scenes in publics. That makes kids stare at them and send them a message which does not belong to neither our areas nor our religion it’s like saying “it’s okay to do such immortal attitude anywhere as you like as long you think it’s good”. That message could ruin our societies. Our religion and habits did not teach us such crap. Those behaves teach them abhorred deeds. I wish that punishment be like a respectful message which everyone appreciates and a red line that that no one else crosses again. Hope this couple is considered as a moral anyway. It’s nice to be advanced country having so many different inhabited nationalities but without forsaken our principles and religion. Each country has its own habits and beliefs which should be respected by any dweller.

Do you think they deserve acquittal or even reduction? Should we be more lax with them? Do you think what couple did is normal behave and they have the right to do whatever they do in their countries?

Backwardness

Our Arabian countries are lagged in every useful and great field. The freedom of expression and democracy do not exist. Satisfaction of ego is dominant. The percentage of the illiterates is the highest in our regions. Almost half of Arab women still cannot read or write! Our Productivity is declining. Researches and development are nonexistent or just so weak. Science and technology are dormant.

Our valuable and absolutely genuine language is getting worthless. The translations of foreign books into Arabic lag far behind figures in the rest of the world: five times more books are translated every year in Greek whereas they are just 11 million. Only 53 newspapers per 1,000 citizens are published daily in the region, in the contrast, 285 papers per 1,000 people in the developed nations, and there are just 18 computers per 1,000 citizens in the Arab world, as compared to the global average of 78 per 1,000.

We are still standing at the same level nothing new deserves mentioning nothing have been achieved during previous decades. We are like living in a light but with totally closed eyes. We own everything physical but without high spirits. Our societies are just like bodies without souls, heads without brains.

We got burdened from silly and vicious clashes between us like the regional war on Saudi Arabia boarders and Yemen, football matches conflicts which generate antipathy between our nations. The heavy rains made our streets just like piles of dust; Egyptians keep authorizing kind of funny and silly fatwas to serve their desires. We are inheriting traditions more than our religion. We are still living in an apartheid era.

We are incompetent to have a control and solution even in our countries. The Palestinian issue is still transforming from bad situation to the worst and it’s like that issue is out of our hands.We did not object the name that got attached on us” The Third World Countries”. We just keep consuming more than producing, we still have lack in access to the knowledge, and we do not appreciate and support great minds like what advanced nations do awarding “noble Prize”. Their success just speaks for itself, they pursuit of their goals by astoundingly and impressive professional ways.We inhabit in absolute stagnation! There are no justifications for what we are in. We have everything, the best religion, great principles, great minds, wealth …ect but unfortunately no achievements.

I’m wondering what the main reason of our backwardness is? Is it because people just start getting away from our Islamic religion? Does imitating the negative side in advanced nations and moving wherever the wind blows plays a rule in our backwardness reason? Could we suppose the rejection of any constructive criticizing to satisfy our ego a main reason? I always wonder what is behind depriving us from our rights what’s wrong in making demonstration against any new verdict! Why our politics can’t hear us like any other countries do! Why any kind of demonstration is just rejected plus the demonstrator cruelly berated to make that kind of hard treatment as a moral so no one can object or speak anymore? Should we blame our silence or it’s just out of our hands? Could we do something worthy one day?

Wish we get the days of the Islamic prosperity progressiveness back one day and wish we named soon something much better than either Third World Countries or even advanced nations something that means the ability to change the world to the best so it just stop that absolute farce.

Life is enigmatic!

When I was a child I used to see life from another direction which made life so simple and colorful. I thought life is always sweet and pretty and people stay honest and cohesive during their surviving in this world. But when I got older it seems the picture I drew of life was not completed coz it lacked the most monumental colors which are black and grey. And it gets harder and harder with time especially when it comes with dealing with people. Actually I love the life and I’m satisfied by what Allah gave me whether it’s, family, skills, gifts, friends, knowledge, money …ect, and I appreciate them all Thank GOD.

But sometimes I feel like life is really enigmatic. I don’t mean the life itself but people who I’m living and dealing with. People, who are part of my life, people who I have to deal with daily.
Unfortunately sometimes I can’t get along with people who I use to deal with. They make life more complicated and mysterious. They cover themselves under grey color and hide their faces under pretty masks. It’s really hard to me to get them and know what they really want. And what makes me get frustrated is when I try to satisfy them but they don’t appreciate it even by a ward Thank You. Well, I am not constraint to please them all even if they are my friends or my kins while, they keep doing unacceptable deeds intentionally or whatever. I’ve nothing to do with people who lost their minds sentiments.

I am wondering and keep asking why that is? There is no need to be hypocrites or liers. People who are doing that are fooling themselves but they still do not aware of their stupidity. No need to act like they are fine and perfect if they have anything annoyed them they can just say it. Why don’t people make everything clearer to simplify dealing with them and get off their masks!
It makes me feel frustrated when I could not understand people. That’s why I need to stay away from people for a while sometimes, especially those superficial humans, to take a breath and rest my mind. I don’t know if I’m mistaken or that is the right way of dealing with people if I got confused I just ignore them without censures and reproach coz they will not appreciated it.

Nevertheless I insist life is still pretty but it needs more patience and dominant manners, so far still waters run deep. May Allah give me and all people the strength to consummate the life.

The Secret

The secret is one of the best books I’ve ever read. It achieved high sales and it reached the top of New York Times best sellers. The secret is a spiritual and self-help book written by Rhonda Byrne. It gives the reader a shove to be optimistic and positive invariably regardless of the obstacles that reader facing. It shows the reader how to focus on every positive thing around and keep them in mind, and exercises the readers how to be forward looking humans, how to put a certain target in mind and never renounce it. It explains in simplicity the law of governing the all lives and how to create a joyful life by getting your whole targets.

Honestly what makes me like this book is while I’m reading every part of it; it reminded me by our Holy Quran and our Prophet Mohammed (PBUH) Sunnah quotes. It exercises the reader to keep praising Allah and how to be graceful servant. I liked it when the book says there is nothing impossible whereas the human has a real faith. It says that we have to thank GOD every time while we are still breathing. Hence there is nothing new and nothing strange in this book. It is really worthy so don’t hesitate to read and enjoy it.

Dubai is up against the wall!

Unfortunately Almabhoh assassination ( may GOD rest his soul in peace) is a familiar foul event that occurred in Dubai and made a global mess. People all were wondering about those professional killers who GOD knows their purpose of killing him in Dubai especially. Dubai police made great appreciated efforts that leads them to the suspect names who were involved in that mission and their DNAs as well.

Dubai police declare… Those people who had been involved in the assassination had been watched by the cameras which recorded their movements at the hotel close to the Victim’s room. And that operation did not offend Dubai only but also the suspects countries” as the Officer’s said in flew off handle tone.

My question is what is their target of killing him in Dubai? And why does Dubai targeted by them? If they really targeted Dubai... Why did they insult Dubai by underestimating the capabilities that such city has? Is that all to make Dubai goes through another new crisis by ruining its safety reputation? Does their jealousy blind their eyes that much, so that made them fool themselves globally? Did not they think about the consequences that they are being through now at least!!!

Wish Dubai police efforts turn over a new leaf of those bastards and get the killers, to put that in their consideration and give a lesson for other terrorists to not even think to mess with our country and any other peaceful countries. May Allah bless and protect you Dubai.

Old little boy!

Thank GOD

We are part of one society what hurt others hurt us as well. We are all like one hand sharing the life with its sweet and sad moments. Learning form others mistakes and experiences. Taking the messages of life from others good and bad deeds. That’s the way of ball bounces. Straight from the shoulder I’m here to say a fascinated scene and tragic at the same time that I’ve seen.

Couple of days ago I went to the clinic to make my RCT session. On our way we passed through a petrol station and there I saw a little boy (if can I say that) he is about 12 years old. He was there selling car’s medals which carry some of Holy Quran quotes.

In fact when I saw him it was like I saw a mature man in a little boy appearance that the brutality and cruelty of his life eliminated the countenance of innocence outta his face. I kept looking at him attentively while he was passing between cars offering his simple commodity for cars riders without boredom or tedium.

While he passed through us I slipped the car’s window down to have a chance to talk to him. When he was there I took a quick peep at him again he looks serious and rational boy. I asked him about the goods he has. Then I purchased more than one medal regardless of my unneeded to them.

My curiosity pushed me to ask him what does constrain him to work. Although he is still kid and he has the right to enjoy his time playing, or whatever like any other kid. He said his parents are jobless plus his father is diabetic and has cardiac disease so, he is not even able to get work cuz of his health circumstances. That’s why nobody can outlay their family except him and his brother. May Allah bless and protect you little guy... What a tough life you are facing and what a devoted boy you are!

My point of narrating the scene is showing my admiration toward this little old boy. Besides blaming myself when I face a little obstacle in contrary side with (what those people are going through) making it complicated by contradictory negative feelings which unfortunately reflect the vulnerable although I having marvelous life in compare. Not only me but also many other people, who keep grumbling about their life and claiming that life is complicated, forgotten the innumerable gifts they have…

Here what I can only say is “Thank you GOD" Thank you for your infinite generosity and your kindness. Thank you for every unappreciated gifts you conferred and we denied. Thank you for the precious and thrive life you awarded...