Weird attitude!

I found this hilarious video on youtube about the former US president Gorge Bosh.


It shows how superficial and rude he is! Dunno how he spent that long time as a president!

Here we go…

Life's Melody

In life we pass through many moments which make us happy and sometimes disenchanted with life. But I realized even sorrow could be sweet sometimes cuz without sorrow we won’t appreciate how the taste of happiness is sweet! Here I post other marvelous words which captivated me:

“”Life is like a piano; White keys are happy moments & Black keys are sad moments. But remember both are played together to give sweet ~melodies~””

So sweet and positive words…Those words show the harmony between sorrow and happiness moments Allah the almighty created!
And here is one of my favorite melodies:

Moonlight sonata

Another social crime

Today I come across after a friend of mine told me a tragic story happened in a hospital. She said she witnessed a married woman got beaten by her husband cruelly, and that left her arm broken and one of her ribs plus the dark red bruises he left over her face and rest of her body! That all happened to her cuz she asked him why you are late! After we finished our conversation I was in a shock for a while! How come a man beat his wife!

Another story I’ve heard before, it’s about a married woman who no longer feels safe in her home. She was beaten by her husband, although they were estranged, and her body was scarred after her injuries which had meant emergency medical attention.

She escaped to her parent’s home and her friends told her she must contact the police – for assistance and to lodge the formal complaint against her husband. Her friends tried to convince her that it’s the only way to make him understand the seriousness of his crime and to force him to control his anger.

But the problem is her family did not want their dirty linen exposed in public. They forced their daughter to keep the matter private, hoping that her husband would see sense. Her father and her brothers pledged that they would visit and talk to him.

This case is common. Women choosing not to speak up against the abuse they have suffered for fear of divorced, losing their children and being of neighborhood gossips!

Recently there are so many people suffering from the domestic violence and it became a contemporary issue which deficiency of passion during childhood is considered the matter of prime importance behind this crime. It somehow affects negatively on people for long extent, especially when the person had been exposed to beaten since his/her childhood.

The problem is those people take their bad memories and concepts about violence with them after marriage, consequently they think they have the right to beat their wives, and others see it’s a normal when a husband beat his wife or vice versa because they coexisted with such situations.

Nowadays people considered the domestic violence a crime against the society. It includes any physical and sexual abuse as well verbal violence and threats. And it has various aspects and affects any one irrespective of age, social background, gender, physical strength, or education. It could happen between spouses and among member of the related family.

The problem is social reasons cannot be overlooked. And there are so many reasons behind the domestic violence against women but I considered the misinterpretation of the religious concept of man’s control over domestic affairs. Some ignorant men believe this to be linked to the controlling of the wife by the husband, while in reality; it means looking after the wife and fulfilling her needs.

In UAE, Dubai foundation for women and children is active in protection victims of domestic violence and they accept people who seek refuge and who got burden from the maltreatment...

I don’t really think that would solve this problem. I mean for how long they would support those victims? Besides the tragic days they had been through would left a negative impact which yields the same previous stories over and over again.

Don’t you think they just push themselves to the edge with tragic consequences? They are humiliating and feeling unsafe at their homes, what are homes for other than feeling safe and happy in? I dunno but dignity is something that we can’t live without, it’s related to make us happy and satisfy human beings. Allah legitimate the divorce cuz sometimes marriage makes people get disenchanted with life, however Allah knows what is the best and sometimes divorce is the best solution at such cases.

Is it our nature!

Good morning/evening;

While I was roaming in the web I found out the following comic; somehow I liked it cuz I found it funny and realistic at the same time, that’s why I come across to drop it in...
Here we go

We all humans are ungrateful, mostly we do not appreciate the graces and gifts we own, we keep looking for the best and that is normal, but the problem is we often prefer what others have more than what we have! I’m wondering when we will be more Thankful!

offensive advice!

Couple of days ago I went to the mall with my family; it was around 5:00 PM. When it was almaghrib prayer time, we all approached to the prayer room to not miss the prayer. When I was there beside the room doorstep there was a lady who does not look Arabian standing there with her adorable kids who got my attention for a while. We both entered the room at the same time, the place there was congested and that somehow made me got relief. Anyway she left her children at the back of the room then she started praying beside me. When she got started praying her younger kid started weeping intensively by way which muddled up the whole place. After we all over and done with praying, one aggressive lady started to shout in a terrible and fury way saying “where on earth is the mother of this kid?” His mother hurried on and caught her kid to shush him. While she was trying to calm him down, that irritated lady came closer to her and said in barbarian tone “ hay you lady don’t ever bring your noisy children in here again we could not even focus, stay at your home and pray there but not in here”. The mother of the kid did not reply she just kept silent with a big shock. That poor lady did not even understand what she said, she is not Arabian but she read the anger tone in her face and voice it was extremely vivid.

At least she has to respect the holy place she is in I think! Is that a way to dispense a foreigner advice? Does it because that lady does not belong to the area so she has the right to treat her cruelly? Does it because she is suffering from the lack of self-esteem so that push her to tyrannize the poor lady who she feels somehow she has the power on her? Unfortunately mostly people who dispense advices are ignorant even the erudite people sometimes can’t handle their anger tone when they advice someone close!

That is not away to advice someone it’s absolutely rejected in Islam. When it comes to giving advice I consider what she did just offensive and stupid speech. Actually I got resented by what I saw. People do not understand what the real Islam is; they just keep worshiping without any value principle forgetting that ((Our Islam is not only dogma and worship but it’s also ethics and dealing well with people)). We are all familiar with that story of the man who got heaven cuz he fed a dog. Our religion resembles mercy for every single creature. But still people do not understand our Islam. I’m still in bewilderment looking for a solution makes people more informative to dispense and accept advices!

Couple to appeal public kissing verdict in Dubai:

A couple who claimed they kissed on the cheek in a restaurant while under the influence of alcohol faces one month in jail and deportation.

An Emirati woman raised a complaint against a 24-year-old British man, who works in Dubai, and a 25-year-old woman, visiting from the UK. Because they broking rules by touching and kissing each other on lips in public. The lady said what they did pissed her off because her children were there and they saw that disrespectful scene in the restaurant around 2 am. After she called the police telling them what happened. The couple claimed they kissed on the cheek under the influence of alcohol. Now they face one month in jail and deportation. The couple will appear before the Appeals Court next week, seeking acquittal or reduction of the primary judgment.

I think they deserved this punishment even if it’s sort of harsh because we all got annoyed when we see such scenes in publics. That makes kids stare at them and send them a message which does not belong to neither our areas nor our religion it’s like saying “it’s okay to do such immortal attitude anywhere as you like as long you think it’s good”. That message could ruin our societies. Our religion and habits did not teach us such crap. Those behaves teach them abhorred deeds. I wish that punishment be like a respectful message which everyone appreciates and a red line that that no one else crosses again. Hope this couple is considered as a moral anyway. It’s nice to be advanced country having so many different inhabited nationalities but without forsaken our principles and religion. Each country has its own habits and beliefs which should be respected by any dweller.

Do you think they deserve acquittal or even reduction? Should we be more lax with them? Do you think what couple did is normal behave and they have the right to do whatever they do in their countries?

Backwardness

Our Arabian countries are lagged in every useful and great field. The freedom of expression and democracy do not exist. Satisfaction of ego is dominant. The percentage of the illiterates is the highest in our regions. Almost half of Arab women still cannot read or write! Our Productivity is declining. Researches and development are nonexistent or just so weak. Science and technology are dormant.

Our valuable and absolutely genuine language is getting worthless. The translations of foreign books into Arabic lag far behind figures in the rest of the world: five times more books are translated every year in Greek whereas they are just 11 million. Only 53 newspapers per 1,000 citizens are published daily in the region, in the contrast, 285 papers per 1,000 people in the developed nations, and there are just 18 computers per 1,000 citizens in the Arab world, as compared to the global average of 78 per 1,000.

We are still standing at the same level nothing new deserves mentioning nothing have been achieved during previous decades. We are like living in a light but with totally closed eyes. We own everything physical but without high spirits. Our societies are just like bodies without souls, heads without brains.

We got burdened from silly and vicious clashes between us like the regional war on Saudi Arabia boarders and Yemen, football matches conflicts which generate antipathy between our nations. The heavy rains made our streets just like piles of dust; Egyptians keep authorizing kind of funny and silly fatwas to serve their desires. We are inheriting traditions more than our religion. We are still living in an apartheid era.

We are incompetent to have a control and solution even in our countries. The Palestinian issue is still transforming from bad situation to the worst and it’s like that issue is out of our hands.We did not object the name that got attached on us” The Third World Countries”. We just keep consuming more than producing, we still have lack in access to the knowledge, and we do not appreciate and support great minds like what advanced nations do awarding “noble Prize”. Their success just speaks for itself, they pursuit of their goals by astoundingly and impressive professional ways.We inhabit in absolute stagnation! There are no justifications for what we are in. We have everything, the best religion, great principles, great minds, wealth …ect but unfortunately no achievements.

I’m wondering what the main reason of our backwardness is? Is it because people just start getting away from our Islamic religion? Does imitating the negative side in advanced nations and moving wherever the wind blows plays a rule in our backwardness reason? Could we suppose the rejection of any constructive criticizing to satisfy our ego a main reason? I always wonder what is behind depriving us from our rights what’s wrong in making demonstration against any new verdict! Why our politics can’t hear us like any other countries do! Why any kind of demonstration is just rejected plus the demonstrator cruelly berated to make that kind of hard treatment as a moral so no one can object or speak anymore? Should we blame our silence or it’s just out of our hands? Could we do something worthy one day?

Wish we get the days of the Islamic prosperity progressiveness back one day and wish we named soon something much better than either Third World Countries or even advanced nations something that means the ability to change the world to the best so it just stop that absolute farce.